One must take the opportunity to speak when the urge presents itself. Knowing this, I confidently go where there is little demand or acceptance in a secular world. I must say the thoughts expressed by Sonny are either in the most offensive ignorance or pathetically naive. As a woman, it hurts to read his words and know that yet another man has, possibly forever, lost his masculine attributes that grip women in such a beautiful way. It is with sincere love and the deepest sorrow over all of the men I know like him, that I am so bluntly speaking these words. Because most of his statements were, quite emphatically, lies: perhaps even absurdities. Allow me to reveal the truth behind his own fear and self-seclusion.

There is no doubt, firstly, that Sonny is rather obviously addicted to pornography, however romanticized he makes it sound. He states that women are beautiful. It is impossible to truly think so and act as he does. If a man found us truly beautiful, he would treasure our bodies. He would not cheapen them as pornography so explicitly and graphically does. The sheer numbers prove this point. Also, if Sonny really did find us beautiful why would he cheapen our bodies with nakedness and sex? If he truly found us beautiful he would treasure the moments he spent with us in private reality and not cowardly seek what was not his to view or act upon.

And I find it interesting that Sonny only discuss the bodies of women; how very telling indeed. Is that all he sees in a woman? How sad. Not for the women at all, but for you Sonny. Men don't even realize what they're missing. It really is the saddest realization for a woman. Not only are there so few men who truly understand what it means to be a real man, much less how to treat a woman, but they don't even know this intended reality exists. Well that is for another article perhaps.

The point, dear men is that pornography is cowardly and cheap and altogether pathetic. It's too bad it is so accessible and acceptable these days, shame isn't even a factor anymore, a disgusting change. Men wouldn't cheapen the women they claim to adore by looking at their naked, used bodies if they really found them beautiful. Much less defile them with "smut" as Sonny so casually admits to.

No, I think he has serious issues with women somewhere within him and won't ever overcome this pornographic addiction until coming to terms with his own hurts and anger concerning women and his own manhood. So to end this expression of hope and hurt for the place men have lowered themselves to, let me say this. It's bad enough that you are ruining the glorious beauties set before you, and so cowardly too, but to then say that you really adore them as you do so? Don't be an idiot.